I once heard a beautiful sentence that said: "Love is not an emotion; It is a promise', and indeed the word 'love' can have many meanings, but when we declare it to a person who is true to our hearts, it is nothing less than a contract signed orally. We promise to give our heart, our body, our soul, our appreciation and everything else it takes to feel loved, attractive and safe. In the first days of love, we do fulfill all our promises, but when the months turn into years, it becomes a little difficult to keep up with it on a daily basis or even often.
If you have already reached this stage, you must understand that your promise is still valid and that you must get rid of the lazy attitude that takes love for granted. Such an approach can seriously damage the relationship, and in the worst-case lead to divorce, so you should learn from the following guide how to show love again in simple ways and how to make your wife fall in love with you again.
Why should the husband make the wife fall in love with him again?
It's not only the man who promises love but the woman as well. If you are reading this article and have reached this point, it may mean that you feel like your wife no longer loves you. Perhaps she stopped feeling loved, special, and protected because you failed to keep your promise to her. Love is not a simple emotion that disappears overnight; it is complex and requires effort to maintain. However, with the right words, actions, and promises, you can revive the passion and love in your relationship, just as you did during courtship. You don't need to guess whether your partner loves you or not; she does, and there are nine ways to remind her, such as bringing her flowers on ordinary days.
1. Bring her flowers and little gifts of consideration without an occasion
Some may find it cliché, but presenting your partner with flowers unexpectedly can charm her and reignite love in your relationship. Although jewelry items such as necklaces and rings can also have the same impact, they are pricey and not necessarily more effective. The crucial thing is to demonstrate to your partner that you thought of her and surprised her after work, even if it occurs randomly and infrequently, without any anticipation on your part.
2. Pay attention to your spouse and support her
It is a common observation that most men struggle with listening skills. They tend to focus on finding solutions and fixing problems when their partners talk about their troubles. However, sometimes women just want to be heard and understood, without being offered solutions. Although there are situations where assistance is required, the first step toward effective communication is to develop active listening skills. If you find yourself at a loss for words, try to express empathy towards her emotions by using phrases like "That's awful," "That's frustrating," or "That's infuriating" to show that you comprehend her point of view.
3. Make your wife feel she's attractive
It's your duty to make your partner feel attractive, at any age and every day. Even during the periods when she does not invest in her appearance, you must understand that she wants to be and feel attractive, and it is possible that she is simply too tired, or that she does not receive the feedback she expects from her husband or partner. Compliment her on the things you like about her appearance, and let her know that you see her exactly as you did many years ago when your relationship was young.
4. Take a more active part in household chores
No matter how independent your wife is and no matter how capable she is of handling all the household chores and the difficulties life throws at her, the truth is that she is tired and exhausted. She needs someone who will not only support her but also help her, even with simple things like washing dishes or folding laundry. When she knows that not only housework awaits her, she will not return to him every day but to her man, because the home will no longer be a place, but the person she fell in love with all over again.
5. Let romance be an important part of your relationship
If you notice a lack of affection in your relationship, it's likely that the romantic aspect has faded away. In such a situation, it's imperative to rekindle that spark and try something new. Although surprising your partner with flowers is a good idea, it's not enough. Consider going out for an impromptu romantic dinner on a random evening or make it a weekly ritual to spend quality time together. These activities can help create a romantic atmosphere and reignite the love between the two of you.
6. When you're in the wrong, apologize with sincerity
When you upset your wife, it is crucial to acknowledge your mistake and understand how to prevent it from happening again. It is equally important to apologize genuinely without making excuses, as explanations may further aggravate her. It is essential to listen to her perspective on what caused her anger and avoid repeating the same mistake. Additionally, ask for her forgiveness and make efforts to rectify the situation if possible. Take time to reflect on her feedback before deciding how to approach similar situations in the future.
7. Engage in shared activities that you both enjoy.
It's possible to carve out two hours during the week, even if you and your partner are swamped with work and responsibilities, to engage in an activity that brings joy or laughter and involves both of your hearts. Whether it's watching a film or going for a jog, finding a shared interest or goal can enhance your relationship. However, it is important to ensure that both parties enjoy the activity and that it is not one-sided. This is one of the most effective ways to strengthen your bond and reconnect with each other.
8. Get to know each other again
To strengthen your relationship with your partner, have a conversation like you did in the beginning of your relationship. Ask your partner interesting questions that don't necessarily have to be intimate or romantic. For instance, you can ask them about their favorite childhood memory or what they would take to a desert island. You can also answer personality questionnaires individually, which will reveal fascinating details about both of you. This can be a fun activity for both of you. If the conversation progresses to intimate questions, you don't necessarily have to stop there.
9. Keep showing love and do NOT give up
In case you notice that your spouse is finding it difficult to open up to you and you feel like you are unable to win their affection again, don't despair. Keep in mind that all relationships experience highs and lows at some point, and it may just require some patience on your part. However, this does not imply that you should be inactive but rather continue with actions that demonstrate your love for your partner. Make them aware of your affection, and the rest will follow naturally.
